Something you had thought would go your way is not working out in your favor. Defeat is pinning you down in an incredibly debilitating way. Yes, disappointment is painful and failure has crippled you in this moment. The dramatics of this reality are making you feel left out in the cold. You are allowed one day to wallow in this sadness. Relish it, roll around in it, celebrate your misery and all that hard earned hurt. When you are done and have exorcised all of the dark, but dishonest thoughts about how this moment reflects on who you are, it’s time to notice the new day dawning and start a path towards the sun. Whatever effort you are grieving was not meant for you anyway. There is something else - something better peaking out at you through all those icy clouds. You deserve better and you will have it.