That partnership you had hoped would be healing and equal just isn’t adding up. It’s hard to believe it, since the two of you are like the same person in many regards, but there is a power struggle operating under the surface that is undeniable. You can’t both be top dog and the universe will naturally choose one of you over the other to lead the way. The other will never like this. In fact, they will hold you personally responsible for their failings if you are the one that winds up rising to the top. It’s safe to say that money becomes the major issue. But, it is more than just dollars - to them it’s about pride and accolades and their fragile ego will not withstand your success. In fact, it’s looking like they have tethered themselves to you in the hopes of reviving themself in some form. In order to preserve your emotional health, you may want to think about how you can start to untangle yourself from them and what kind of boundaries you can put in place, IF you choose to move forward. You may also want to think about extracting yourself and just walking away. You shouldn’t let anyone try to steal your worth.