I hate to break it to you, but whatever you are up to - they are onto you. You may think you are pulling the wool over someone’s eyes, but those eyes are seeing what you are doing. Yep -you are caught and if you aren’t you will be soon. They may not immediately grasp the full truth of your actions, but truth has a way of rising to the surface or slowly sinking in with an extra burn. So, it’s just a matter of time before you are discovered in this act and there’s only so much you can play that innocent, unknowing card that you have relied upon in the past. Look within and examine your reasons for this deception. Maybe if you confront the heart of it, you’ll find a more forthright and transparent way to handle the situation - one that clears a path for all to move forward with a clear conscience. To be sneaky is sometime necessary, but in this occasion- what are you truly avoiding? Will the consequences of your betrayal really be worth it? I know you don’t want to hear it, but honest is the best policy in your case.